Missing, No Action

Yes, I’ve been missing from my blog this past month but I’ve not been in action at all. At the end of April I was sent to a surgical assessment ward at my local hospital by my GP. What happened next was bizarre. It’s something I’m still processing in my own head which I need to do before I can share with others.


Things as they say went pear shaped and rather serious things happened. It’s now the last day of May and I’m still here in hospital. I hope I’ve passed the turning point but after a little hiccup on Saturday and another today I’m not quite sure.

It’s going to take me time to get over all this so I will be quiet on the blog for a while but I’m a fighter and will get over this.


In 5 short weeks I went from the happiest I’ve been in my life to quite possibly the worst point of my life. But I’ll get through this despite the actions of others and also because of the supportive actions of some.

It’s really true that you find out who has your back when you need support the most. I’ve certainly seen some people’s real side and to be honest, I’m glad I have because I would have hated to continue putting effort in to something that was all a lie. I know I deserve better and nobody will bring me down and say otherwise.


Just remember you are the one who has control over your happiness. If you aren’t happy change your circumstances. Don’t ever continue to live in someone else’s lie when you find out the truth. You know you are worth more than that!

27 Comments

  • Janet Earling-Bencivenni

    31st May 2017 at 11:21 AM

    Prayers that all will be well.

    1. Candace

      31st May 2017 at 12:47 PM

      Thank you xx

  • Kim Carberry

    1st June 2017 at 7:53 PM

    Aww! Bless you! I hope you are feeling better and are out of hospital soon x
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  • Kelly | To Become Mum

    3rd June 2017 at 9:08 AM

    Lots of love to you. I saw on Insta that you were in hospital, I do hope everything is ok and you’re back to feeling brilliant again soon x

  • Katie

    3rd June 2017 at 9:18 AM

    Feel better soon. Hope you get to go home soon.

  • Sam, Memories and Mayhem

    3rd June 2017 at 10:18 AM

    I hope you are ok Hun. Feel better soon xx

  • Claire Ady

    3rd June 2017 at 11:49 AM

    Get well soon x

  • Debbie

    3rd June 2017 at 11:53 AM

    Hoping all is ok. Your health is more important at the moment than blogging so the best thing to do is concentrate on getting better.

  • Ritu

    3rd June 2017 at 11:56 AM

    I do hope things positively for you x

  • Erica Price

    3rd June 2017 at 12:29 PM

    You have really. Even through the wars, but you are right you are a strong person and you will fight your way back. x
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  • Christine

    3rd June 2017 at 12:40 PM

    I’ve been following you on Instagram and am really hopeful you’re able to come home soon. I must say I’m rather impressed you’ve been able to keep on writing and blog planning.

  • Parul Thakur

    3rd June 2017 at 3:33 PM

    Hugs! I hope you feel better very soon. Also, you are right that hard times in life bring the right color of people. In a way, it’s good that we get to know such people.
    Wishing you a speedy recovery.

  • Amelia

    3rd June 2017 at 3:37 PM

    Sending positive thoughts. Yes to having control over our own happiness and sometime we do need a reality check just wish it wasn’t through this way for you. Take care, remain positive.

  • The Indecisive Eejit

    3rd June 2017 at 3:56 PM

    That sucks! Sending four leaf clovers and buckets of eejit love your way.
    It’ll not make a pick of feckin difference, but know we all love you and wish you well 🙂

  • Becca @ The Married Cat Lady

    3rd June 2017 at 5:54 PM

    Thinking of you! Hope you’re on the road to recovery soon. Despite it all, it sounds like you’ve still got a positive mentality, and with that, you will come out on top. Best of luck. <3

  • Em Linthorpe

    3rd June 2017 at 5:58 PM

    I’m sending you every bit of health and happiness possible. Take care of yourself xx

  • Emmalene

    4th June 2017 at 9:54 AM

    Lots of love to you Candace and sending positive vibes. I’m impressed that you managed to make a flat lay from your hospital table though 🙂 xx

  • Hayley

    4th June 2017 at 9:56 AM

    Wishing you well.

  • Lorna

    4th June 2017 at 11:43 AM

    All the good vibes from us on Skye!

  • Lisa Orchard

    4th June 2017 at 12:35 PM

    Sending prayers your way for a fast recovery!
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  • Jennifer

    4th June 2017 at 2:15 PM

    Sending you laughter, because laughter heals. And it sounds like you need a whole lot of laughter.

  • AnHistorian

    4th June 2017 at 3:26 PM

    I’m sending positive thoughts your way!! And you have to focus on the people who are really there for you, the others are totally irrelevant!!

  • Angela Noel

    4th June 2017 at 3:39 PM

    Thinking of you.

  • Happy Mummy

    5th June 2017 at 2:41 PM

    Oh no that’s awful, I hope you get well soon. When are you due home? x

  • Joanne

    5th June 2017 at 9:04 PM

    Hi just wanted to wish you all the best and a speedy recovery x

  • Sarah MumofThree World

    6th June 2017 at 2:12 PM

    I hope you are on the road to recovery now and glad to hear you are fighting hard. Big respect to you for creating beautiful flat lays for your blog while in hospital! x
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  • Zoey

    8th June 2017 at 5:20 PM

    You are very strong and an inspiration to others. Thanks so much for posting this

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