I really think the work ‘love’ is used to often in inappropriate circumstances too often. I believe until you really have had your heart truly broken you can’t appreciate love in its rawest form which is what we should be striving for. Love is used to often to relate to material and frivolous things. That to me has nothing to do with love. It’s about putting everything on hold or at risk for someone, the desire to need nothing else in your life.  But your heart can break so badly when you are told you are loved and you find… View Post

I know that I can be my worst enemy at times.  I know I am too hard on myself, too cruel and struggle to be truly happy with my lot.  There’s changes I need to make but there are also things I’ve learnt to accept about this never ending roller coaster called life. These include: Life isn’t fair. Failure is not always a bad thing, it can teach us so much. Success may not always be the best thing for you. Beware of fair weather friends. Nobody really knows what goes on behind closed doors. Don’t continually say yes to… View Post

I not sure whether I am alone with this or not but I am one of these people who likes my own company.  I really need to have some time each day on my own.  It relaxes and calms me.  I find I get quite overwhelmed if I don’t have this time on my own.  I’d like to think it isn’t me being anti social but more taking care of my personal happiness and well being. I’ve often found other people question this and say that they would get bored being on their own.  I can understand how this could… View Post

This month has been a little more productive blog wise and has been filled with more adventures than January was.  I really think hard work is paying off.  It’s certainly brought some new things in to my life like the first item on my list of things I am loving this month. MacBook One of my blogging goad this year was to save up any money I made blogging and purchase a MacBook. This month I chased up a few invoices I was due and I purchased this little beauty. I am so happy with this purchase and wonder now… View Post

The New Year often brings new aims for the year, new memories to be made and often new resolutions to be written along with dreams of that one impossible experience.  The New Year is all about aspirations for the future.  I personally try not to specify ‘resolutions’.  there is just something about that word that makes my brain automatically think failure but I can never pin exactly why.point why.  I know personally this year I had a look through my 50 x 50 goals and evaluated them as over the past couple of years some of these goals have become irrelevant… View Post